Sometimes it is such a challenge to decide what is the appropriate thing to wear. Like some many things, I think it was easier when I was young. On Sunday morning the men all wore suits, white shirts and a tie and the women wore dresses and most wore hats. Even the children had fairly standard uniforms to wear. Schools had strict dress codes that limited our options. Social invitations would come with guidance as to whether the event was formal, business formal or casual dress. And then came the sixties and all of the rules were thrown out. It was all about freedom of expression and coloring outside of the lines. Interestingly, this also led to clothing norms. It was considered bad form to show up anywhere wearing what would have been required before. The challenge then was to wear clothes that were counter-cultural and considered cool by your peers. Without the guidelines there was much greater potential for being mocked by others. Another challenge to dressing appropriately was knowing when you had aged out of a particular style. I remember going to my ten year high school reunion and wearing my jeans and polo shirt and everyone else was wearing their business formal. We are expected to change our clothing choices as me mature. I have matured to the place where my clothing choices are based on what fits and what is clean.
Paul uses the way we pick our clothes to wear as a way of understanding how we choose to live as children of God. The analogy is good over time. There was a time when the people of God didn’t think about what was the right thing to do. There were the laws and the interpretations of the law that told them exactly what they should or shouldn’t do. Their wardrobe was dictated to them by the religious authorities. The problem was the religious authorities lost sight of why the laws had been given. They had the people putting on the same things everyday without a thought as to what might be more appropriate with changing times and circumstances. Just like the missionaries that went to tropical areas of the world and forced the people to wear clothing that was created to survive harsh climates. The missionaries gave the clothing importance beyond its intended purpose of protecting the body from the weather. The religious leaders in ancient Israel had given the laws importance beyond its intended purpose of guiding people into compassionate and just ways of living together.
Along came Jesus and the rules were reinterpreted and the people were taught to understand and relate to God in new ways. Jesus taught before we put on a rule or try to put the rule on someone else we need to consider how doing so is in keeping with the two basic rules of loving God and loving others as ourselves. There was nothing loving in the missionaries trying to force people in the tropics to wear heavy woolen clothing. Many people, including missionaries, died trying to wear clothing that wasn’t appropriate. People die today when others try to force them to live their lives in ways that are not appropriate for them. Some people die spiritually, emotionally, and physically because they try to force themselves to live a life that is not right for them.
Choosing the right outfit is part of our maturation process. Infants can’t dress themselves so their caretakers dress them and start the process of teaching them the importance of dressing and the basic of how to do it. Small children need a lot of help understanding what clothes are appropriate in what setting and wise parents help the child understand why they are suggesting one outfit over another. Adolescent years are when children assert their own style and children who have been instructed in the fundamentals of clothing selection my choose very different clothes than their parents would select but they are likely to choose clothing that does what clothing is intended to do. As we mature in our faith we start out needing someone to tell us about God and tell us what God requires of those who want to be children of God. Then we are encouraged to think about what God is saying to us so we make our own choices. When we mature in our faith, we may have a different understanding of God from our spiritual parents but we will have a solid understanding of the basic intent of faith. We will understand how God desires for us to live with compassion and justice for others. The story of Jesus in the temple suggests to me that even Jesus was required to gain some maturity in what it meant to be child of God. His actions seemed right to him based on his relationship with God but he also discovered he had caused his parents worry and pain. The passage says “Jesus matured, growing up in both body and spirit, blessed by both God and people.” He learned better how to live with others and still live out the life God had planned for him.
I do not believe God expects all of us to live cookie cutter lives any more than we would want to wear the same clothes as everyone else. God loves the diversity of clothes we choose to put on as our lives as long as they are appropriate for bringing love, compassion, justice, and peace to the world. Amen.
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